When I first picked up a crochet hook, I had no idea how much joy (and occasionally, frustration) it would bring into my life. Crochet has become one of my favourite creative outlets — it’s soothing, practical, and incredibly rewarding. But looking back, there are a few things I really wish someone had told me when I first started. So, whether you’re just getting into crochet or want to nod along from the other side, here are five things I’ve learned the hard way.

1. Not All Yarn Is Created Equal

When I began, I thought yarn was just… yarn. I grabbed the softest, prettiest skein I could find — only to discover it was a nightmare to work with. Some yarn splits easily, some hides stitches, and others are just plain difficult for beginners. If you’re starting out, I highly recommend using a light-coloured, smooth yarn in a medium weight (like DK or worsted). It’s easier to see your stitches, and much kinder when you’re learning tension. Avoid black and dark colour as they are difficult to see and work your stitches into.

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2. Tension Takes Time

Crochet tension (how tightly or loosely you hold your yarn) is one of those mysterious things that just… happens over time. My early projects either looked like stiff little bricks or floppy, loose pancakes. Don’t stress about it at first! With practice, your tension will even out — promise. Swatching can really help here, especially when following patterns. Practice holding your hook and adjusting your hold hand to find the best placement for your yarn.

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3. There Are So Many Hook Sizes — And They Matter

When I first saw a crochet pattern call for a “4.5mm hook,” I had to Google whether that was even a real thing. (Spoiler: it is.) Hook size really matters in crochet, especially when matching gauge or making garments. Start with a standard 4mm or 5mm hook, and get comfortable before diving into the tiny or jumbo sizes. And metal hooks? Way smoother than plastic. Also, some are much more comfortable than others to limit your hand and wrist cramp, so find ones that suit your grip.

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4. Don’t Skip the Magic Ring

I avoided the magic ring for ages because it looked complicated. I stuck with the chain loop method and hoped for the best. Once I finally gave it a go, I never looked back. It makes starting in the round cleaner and more professional. It is now as easy as 1-2-3, and takes a few seconds to do instead of watching videos trying for minutes to get it right.

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5. Mistakes Are Part of the Journey

You will mess up stitches. You’ll miss counts. You’ll wonder why your square is turning into a triangle. That’s okay. Every crocheter has been there. The important part is to keep going, frog what needs frogging, and laugh at the weird shapes along the way. Your skills will improve — and those early wobbly pieces? They’re a badge of honour. Absolutely nobody gets everything perfect, and often those little mistakes make an item more unique and personal compared to machines.